Continued:
LESSON
7: Just ask
Some
of the best things come when I "Just ask." A friend and I were in
the main part of our quaint college town, and we decided we were
hungry. We decided to just ask a cashier at a wraps eatery if we
could have one of their wraps. Sure enough, he told us to wait right
there and seconds later came back with a chicken and rice wrap.
When people working are approached by students who try to get something
free or for a discounted price, they can only do two things; 1)
they are probably so surprised with the question that they are happy
to fulfill that students wishes, or 2) they get annoyed and give
a lecture on how customers need to pay in order for them to get
paid. Whatever the outcome, it should be noted that "just asking"
is a hard thing to do because it could end up in great embarrassment
or harassment.
LAST
LESSON: Guilt and Conscience
Many
students don't try and use their surroundings to the fullest advantage
because they feel a sense of guilt. Sometimes I used to go in to
visit a friend working at a sandwich shop and he would make me a
free sandwich. When he didn't charge me I would feel kind of guilty
because I didn't want him to get in trouble. The more I thought
about this, the less guilty I felt. I remembered what he had told
me about not doing it if he thought he was gong to get in trouble,
so I realized if he didn't feel guilty neither should I. I like
to believe that things are meant to be. If it is meant to be that
I get a good deal on something one day and may not be as lucky the
next, I try and accept it and go with the flow. The best thing I
feel I can do, is be aware there are many great deals that are out
there for students like me, who live on a smaller budget. Within
my sense of guilt, however, I try not to get my friends in trouble.
Favors from friends may have consequences within the criminal justice
system, commonly known as theft and embezzlement. Always operate
within your moral parameters and society's legal parameters, as
the next article I may be writing will be an interview of a student
in the county jail!
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Survival
Lessons
LESSON
1:
Meeting People
LESSON
2:
Free Samples
LESSON
3:
Farmers Market
LESSON
4:
Fruit Trees & Vegetable Gardens
LESSON
5:
Drink Water, Carbo-Load on Beer
LESSON
6:
Fraternity & Sorority BBQ's
LESSON
7:
Just Ask
LAST
LESSON:
Guilt & Conscience
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